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Rebecca Sue "Becky" Cox Havens


Rebecca Sue "Becky" Cox Havens age 61, passed away Friday, May 22, 2020 at her home.

Becky loved her family. She was a loving wife to Gary for 43 years, a caring mother, grammy / mimi, sister and friend. Becky spent several years at Marion Senior High School making sure the children were fed each day. She loved to be outdoors feeding the birds or working in her flowers. Becky kept her family going, Gary in line, and her home special. She will be missed dearly by all who knew and loved her.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Frank and Nannie Lou Cox.

Becky is survived by her husband, Gary Havens of Sugar Grove, Va.; daughter, Amy Cox and significant other, Jeremy Martin; son Jason Havens and significant other, Brandi Dillman, all of Marion, Va.; sisters, Debbie Cox of Sugar Grove, Va., and Beth Jarrett and husband, Kevin of Angier, N.C.; five grandchildren, Walker Cox, Mattie Cox, Evangeline Havens, Atlana Williams, and Marina Williams; several nieces and nephews.

At Becky's request, all services will be private.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, Smyth County Local, 2840 Electric Road, Suite 106A, Roanoke, VA 24018.

To share memories of Rebecca Sue "Becky" Cox Havens, please visit www.seaverbrown.com. Care for Becky's family has been entrusted to Seaver-Brown Funeral Service & Crematory, 237 East Main Street, Marion, Va. 24354.

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I am so sorry for the loss of Becky. Special hugs and prayers to Gary and Amy and her brother. All of you are in my heart.

LINDA DIAZ May 27 2020 12:00 AM

Becky was a very special person..time nor space would allow me to express all the memories that I have of her...from days of Frank's store, to their living in the house across the road to their living on 16. I'm going to miss Becky as will her entire family and friends. To the Cox family (my extended family), my thoughts and prayers are forever with you. I love you all

Lynn Ross May 27 2020 12:00 AM

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Becky was a beautiful lady with a heart of gold. She was always smiling whenever we were together. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you. Big hugs, Angie & Rocky (Gonkie & Poppy)

Angie Spiva May 26 2020 12:00 AM

My condolences to the Cox family. As one of Beths best friends in the 60s and 70s, Im sure we were little pests to big sister, Becky. I have fond memories of the fun times playing Mystery Date and Hot Potato.

Valerie Sword Mitchell May 26 2020 12:00 AM

Havens family, Sorry for your loss , she was a sweet lady . Wanda Owens

Wanda Owens May 26 2020 12:00 AM

Our thoughts and prayers for the family of our classmate Becky. MSHS Class of 77

Linda Blevins May 25 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Rebecca "Becky" Cox Havens

Linda Blevins May 25 2020 12:00 AM

Prayers for your family. My God give you peace that only he can give. Becky Bane Thomas

Becky Bane thomas May 24 2020 12:00 AM

Debbie, Sorry to hear of your Sisters passing ,we will keep you in our prayers. Danny Jarvis and family

Dan jarvis May 24 2020 12:00 AM

My thoughts & prayers go out to all of you! Gary, Amy, Jason, Deb, Kristi no words can ease the pain of the loss of a wife, mother, sister or aunt, however, our Lord can give us peace, strength, and comfort and Im praying this for each of you today, tomorrow and all the days to come. Theres so many memories from our childhood days out on the creek and seeing her wave and that beautiful smile. Amy you have your mommas smile always let it shine! Love to all and many thoughts & prayers at this difficult time

Cindy Poston Blevins May 24 2020 12:00 AM

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